#i spend so much time reading about thid

[astral-disastral-catastral]

Kept imagining this scenario where a massive massive party in Fontaine was being hosted And all the fontainians are invited like lyney and lynette and my son freminet and arlecchino who is female and hot and smash uhm please i like girls og my god you can step on me what huh uh anyways and freminet didn't wanna go that much cuz like he doesnt like parties and is socially awkward and cannot read social cues at all and does not like to socially interact with others outside his family and is painfully Introverted and finds interacting tiring a lot of the time and has mild agoraphobia which is not canon and is also has severe anxiety disorder and is also autistic for some reason woaaahhh Headcanons which is also not canon uhm but lyney and lynette and freminet and arlecchino went to the party anyway and they went and freminet didn't like it there and some people like ga ming got invited aswell because he goes to Fontaine regularly to deliver stuff which is also not canon i think and it was overly bright and crowded and loud and overstimulating freminet so he just walked out the room and then met ga ming and they're both wearing suits and they talk to eachother after ga ming is like oh are you alr bro u look exhausted and ga ming invites him to sit down with him and it's sorta dark outside the room [very dark] because the lights are off and the only light is coming from the supermoon you can see out the window and they talk a little and then more and freminet feels better as they yap to eachother [fremmy legit never does thid but Ga ming let him talk about marine biology which freminet has been hyperfixated on for years at a time and loves a lot like A LOT] and ga ming has to go make a delivery when the party ends but he forgot cuz he got really distracted easily and regularly does on a daily basis but listened to freminet intently when he was talking abt marine biology and had he said his favourite flowers are romaritime flowers and ga ming had a spare bouquet of those from a previous delivery to someone in fontaine and then dashed off and now they're friends and ga ming has a bunch of friends but freminet doesn't and now freminet is smiling for once MY BABY OMD and really loved the boquet like he loved liked it at first and then love loved it and then it neared a level of love things like pers receive and and then freminet is like all flustered n stuff and like oh wow and and then he just spends the little duration of the party left staring at the supermoon and legit just daydreaming about ga ming and having conversations with him and hanging out with him n everything and everyone kinda leaves the party while he's daydreaming and lyney and lynette come out whilst arlecchino is just talking to Neuvillette and they're like bro what's up with you you're smiling how rare is that woahhhh and he's like i made a friend and he's just genuinely happy and smiling and everything oh my god i love him getting giddy thinking abt this and lyney is like like wh what and lynette is like cool and freminet id blushing and flustered and everything then father comes out and they all go back to the hearth and freminet slept really well that night and wasn't as worried about stuff as he nornal is and didn't have any nightmares either oh my GOD I LOVE THEM HELPPPP I'M DYING CRIES 3IEHWHQUU3HEUEHEUEYE THEYRE SO CUTE💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

[kenandeliza]

A Marvel Family What-If : What If They grow up normally?

If the suspendium event and the rest of the shazam 1970s comic series didn't happen, i wondered what the future would be for the golden age Marvel Family

Billy: Mr Morris would probably hand over Whiz station to Billy, so he'd be the new owner of the station. Happily married to Cissie Sommerly

Mary: based on my previous headcanon on her being a fashion model (because i kept seeing mary being used as a model for back to school advertisements or clothing advertisements in fawcett comics), I'd like to think she'd own a Fashion magazine brand or continued the Shazam.inc business after Uncle Dudley's passing

Freddy: He'd probably open a comic book shop. In future days where he is in his 70s-80s, he'd write comics based on his previous diary entries of his adventures with the marvel family with a fake pen-name, as the newer generation are not familliar about the family and thinks of his comics as fictional

Kit: He tries to spend as much time with his brother after revealing himself accidentally, going out everyday to fish in a boat or to admire nature. It was a bit sad seeing everyone grow old as he stays the same, but it saddens him even more when Freddy started forgetting past events in his older years, it was why he would often read Freddy's diary back to him

Tawky Tawny: Tawny had a pretty long and famous life, still relaxing with the marvel family, being a businessman, a hollywood actor once. He was incredibly famous that they tried to make a documentary on his life! Sadly, there weren't any young tigers who could talk and walk like him to play the role as Tawny (let alone a tiger who wouldn't maul the camera crew), so they used CGI despite Tawny's complaint about the tiger being uncanny

idk, it's just these headcanon that popped into my head if the family grow up normally without the events of the 1970s shazam continuing the golden age, sorry if thid had reached some light-angsty territory (i know my angst writing is bad, forgive me for the cringe :>

[cgogs]

I was reading Oxeye Daisy today. It absolutely broke me.

I found the fabric about three months ago, and for some reason, I couldn’t read it. Every time I tried, something told me, “not yet, but soon.” At the tune, I was in a really bad mental state, and my brain knew I would need to be fully mentally capable in order to digest your fic.

Today was apparently that day. I read it over the course of my day, reading a snippet in a checkout line, reading a chapter when I was in a deck chair, and finally finishing it when I got home.

There were many moments that struck me in this fic, but this one stood out to me the most. It was when young Dream’s wish slipped out of the music box, the one he wrote as a child. To me, that moment encapsulated the tragedy of this fic. That, although they always loved each other and will never stop, it isn’t enough. For reasons beyond their comprehension, their love cannot be enough to sustain them.

For a long time, I didn’t understand why people love tragedies. I thought, “Why read a sad story when the world is already sad?” But, after reading another fanfic that equally touched my heart, it dawned on me:

We read tragedies to make the sad stories matter.

Unfortunately enough, many individuals will have their lives end unhappily. They will live awful lives, and at the end, there will be no happy ending. Despite the progress we have made, people still suffer and die for no reason. No purpose.

But, when we write tragedies, we give those meaningless deaths purpose. We show that, even if the story ends unhappily, the story still matters.

Even though Dream and George may never get their happy ending in your universe, their love still mattered. It still deserved to be seen for how beautiful it is.

I have been in fandom for a long time, and there are certain fanfics that, to this day, I continue to think about. Fanfics from fandoms that I have left long ago, but their stories still remain.

Your fanfic has been added among to these fanfics.

No matter where you go in life, know this: you have changed my life. I will spend the rest of my life grateful that I got to know your story and your words. I know that this small ask won’t ever be enough to repay what you have given me, but maybe one day I will be able to give back what you have given me.

With the sincerest regards,

-Reina

Thank you so much. I don't even know what to say. I'll reread this every time i have writers block. Im so glad you enjoyed and was able to absorb something deeper ohhh thid means so much to me 😭😭

[gatheringkeepsakes]

My reply was too long so I am rbing this, I hope that's okay!

There's a big debate around it because the inherent structure of Polyam relationships (3 or more) means it almost always ends up including at least one queer relationship because het relationships can only happen between two members of different genders and the moment you add another person, it no longer fits that criteria.

Some folks argue that Polyam is a part of the queer community simply because they are challenging the 'default' (read as het/monogamous) model that we're all socially conditioned is the "right way" to love. Some folks believe they are born to be non-monog and can't see themselves in any other light, but does that mean it's technically a sexuality? Example: A cis/het woman in a triad relationship with two men would still be cis/het even if both of her partner's were also seeing each other.

At the end of the day, it seems more widely agreed that polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and relationship anarchy are all relationship models and lifestyle choices before they're anything else.

Also polyamory and polygamy are quite different. They both rely on a relationship structure that has more than two people, but polygamy often places one person in a position of control as the sole member of the group that can have multiple relationships. More often than not, that courtesy is not extended to that person's partners. Polyamory, on the other hand, is the act of having multiple romantic and/or sexual relationships with other people in which all parties are on the same page and are given equal rights and opportunities to explore their own separate relationships should they so choose.

Hm wait can someone explain this to me? I saw a post saying polyamorous people were lgbt but that doesn’t make sense to me

Isn’t polygamy just a relationship status (?) that’s not the word I’m looking for help

Like-you can be in a polyamorous relation ship and lgbt but that doesn’t make you lgbt, right?

[princess-fuckrosa]

so you make saeran hc, that's great! i already love u skdkdkd tbh, i wanted to ask some hc for him with a s/o that it's really kindhearted and haves an ice cream shop, they could have thid cute little dates and everything. idk but i have been thinking of him with a girl like that after playing his route (no, i didn't play his after ending yet but i have seem some spoilers ;-;) and i wanna read some fluff skskskd hope u can do them and thank u for taking ur time!!!

Sorry it took so long, but I hope I did a great job with this one! I had so much fun, Saeran is such a cutie ❤

Also, I thought about this as a slight AU, where he is not involved with all the Mint Eye drama, and he has Ray's personality with this one!

Thank you Anon for this sweet request, come again when the box is open! 💖

Saeran with a s/o who has an ice cream shop

Honestly, this is perfect.

You opened your little shop just a few days ago, so it was not crowded yet. You hired an employee so you could have some days off from the week, but mostly it was just one person running the shop. It was nothing too big or fancy yet, but a cozy little place to spend some peaceful time.

Some people wandered in that day, but it was better than yesterday and the day before, and that made you happy.

There was only just a cute old couple in the shop when Saeran walked in, and the moment he laid his eyes on you, he became mesmerized. And shy.

He had so many thoughts in his head. Things he wanted to say to you, but he was so afraid that he will sound creepy or he will say something that will scare you off, he didn't dare to do it.

You noticed him too, there was something sweet about how he ordered some strawberry flavored ice cream with a blush on his face.

And you recognized him when he returned to your shop the next day.

And the day after.

And the day after that.

A week went by and he came back every day, gaining more and more confidence, and he observed you very well every time.

At this time, he was already obsessed with you: the way you smiled at him, your voice as you asked how is he doing, your motions as you scooped some delicious frozen goods into his bowl, the way you interacted with everyone...

Which made his heart ache a little. You were so kind, so precious, so perfect, he wanted you only of him. Your smile, your kindness, your everything.

He finally gathered his courage to talk to you more. He introduced himself and he was finally learned your name...

(Okay, let's be honest, he probably know your names already, he's a little stalker but we love him anyway)

From that point, you greeted him with his name too, and every time you said his name out loud, he thought his heart will gonna stop.

You slowly found yourself waiting for him every day, and he never disappointed you. He was always a little shy, but so kind, so sweet. He slipped in some subtle compliments every time you spoke, but he was not pushy, it came out so smoothly and it made you blush like a little girl.

Well, occasionally, he said some weird stuff, but nothing too weird, it was not unsettling at all, it just looked like he was still a little shy and nervous.

On most days, besides being his usual kind self, he looked so tired. You noticed the dark circles under his eyes, but he seemed relieved after talking to you.

In the meantime, your shop became more and more popular. Sometimes it was difficult to chat with Saeran, which made you sad sometimes. You noticed it on him too, he was frustrated with the situation, but never said anything wrong about it.

One day, when he came in at the usual time, you finally decided to take control over the situation.

You asked if he had plans for tomorrow evening.

'I thought you could come here before I close the shop, so, you know, we can finally chat more again, just the two of us.'

He became SO excited.

Saeran couldn't focus at all that day, and when it was finally time to meet you at your shop, he felt like he could burst out of happiness.

And to your surprise, he didn't come to your place empty handed.

He handed you over a beautifully wrapped box. Inside it, you found an adorable necklace with an icecream cone medal, and it made your heart melt.

That was the first day when you touched him, you couldn't help but hug him in return for the present. He gently hugged you back, it was a simple little gesture, but for the two of you, it felt like the most romantic moment ever.

You went to grab some of his favorite icecreams, and you ate it together, chatting till it got dark outside.

And it became more and more frequent, and after some time, he finally made it clear that he fell in love with you hard. At that point, it was obvious for you that you both have feelings for each other, but the fact that he put his feelings into words, meant everything to you.

[bonesnmetalrp]

*bursts through your wall like the kool-aid man* so to throw the ball right back in your court, what are some RP topics/subjects or tropes or character development THINGS you'd like to write with nuisance?? >:0 are there parts of the canon you'd want to see them interact with? specific characters? aspects of their own character that need to be challenged?? spill the tea.

C r I E s

Pay for my wall, Hannah.

Nuisance is very new and so am I! I joined the fandom in November 2020 because I'd never seen the show before.

Nuisance started out as a joke character and I've only started developing them seriously in maybe... end of January I think so all of their canon story is still very vague and wonky!!

I'd absolutely love to have them interact with some of the Devils Nest Crew and some other Homunculi because that's where they spend their life in their canon. I am however, TERRIBLY shy and self conscious about my writing and interacting.

I ALSO would love to play out some new or changed versions of their verse, I have this AU with Puzzle where Nuisance hangs out a lot with Isabel and I ADORE it so much! (And her in general, she's the reason I made thid blog, bc she is very inspiring! :D)

Maybe even some AUs outside of FMA, not sure!

Generally, writing them more will automatically help me develop them. They're a bit of an airhead and before they meet the Chimeras don't understand human behavior with its yes' and nos that well yet, and I'd like to maybe explore that some more some time!

As for what my favorite tropes in fiction and writing are:

Angst that ends in ridiculous amounts of fluff, gotta earn it but once they do the reward is BIG (however more of the actual "we're about to die, this is the end" angst and less of a "i said something that got misunderstood and i refuse to say sorry" type bc the latter makes me a little TOO anxious xD)

Found family because YES

Enemies to lovers OR friends to lovers, partially connected to homoerotic swordfights bc im that bitch

Vigilante characters, that have their own moral code outside the law

Self sacrificing idiots trying to do so for each other all the time pfff

I hope that's good tea there and that this was somewhat entertaining to read!! It's 1 am here rn :'D

[viridescent-lament]

ive reached to immovable objects.... for now i will try to find a better theme for my main instead

other people have acutal Problems so i would prefer if no one waste their time reading thisbut i need to say this somewhere and i havent and hope to never make a second vent blog so! bleh. this whole thing is not going to be formatted purely because it is not meant for anybody i just Need to Type. i was so happy about my research ! it was fun! but i have to go back through everything and keep trackk of how many peaople and how many gave multiple alignments and i cant, i tried but my memory is so bad i cant remember if i wrote htoiings doen for each blog so im tired i dont wsant to go through everything but i did want to make this reasearch but i dont even kno wwhat it is research for!! what conclusion format will my data be!! i cant do  that anf maybe no one will care that i abandonded i because i doubt anynone lookks into whether some random tumblr user sactually went through with a thing for a rb game but!! my friends have helped so much and i was only okay with bothering them if it was going to lead somewheere but afte everything, after my friend with a canon blog boosted it i still wasnt able o finish it and its not a big deal i douub t theyll care or remember but its bugging me i font want to give up but if meaie kondo saw this it would be ‘does this spark joy’ and id say ‘no but throwing it out does onot spark joy either’ and i dont know what im talking about !!! if that were the only hting it would be fine but i was so excited to make a post about my drawing process and my friend was so kind to send an ask after i practically begged again im always bugging people for silly things i should just send myself asks if i weant them anf not rely on bothering others and logically i know they dont care theyd probably say something lke ‘ if you dont want to, dont force yousrelf! art blovck sucks sometimes and ideas become less appealing’ but in a fdifferent phrasing and tone that i cant predict and i kno wthats true but i cant make myself stop i need to fo it but its lost interest and i want to make ne things and use new ideas but i cant i cant abandon this idea my friend helped and asked for and even if i could i want to improve art first i had this hwole things i was going to spend a wek pre various fundamentals but i did one two page capturing energy and it isnt good i cant i dont know how to fic thid am i just supposed t o stumble on the solution i cant i d ont understand i dont know how ive barely ooked up at the comupter im not sure if theres been a sentance break this isnt for anybody to read so it doesnt matter but the thought of noone helping is bad!! its bad i dont think i can shake these thoughts without someone with a dufferent pov easing my mind i cant jsut rely only on others people have actual issues these are all so trivial but i cant shake them and i know its weid anf gross ijfand patheric to even type these out but i dont know i dont know im cant think aof a solution and i cant bother anyone im staring at my hands while typing and gioing :/ at myself id say its pathetic but its not even that ifj

okay thatd enough now

[norsesuggestions]

what is your opinion on gustav iii?

Hmmm well

With the disclaimer that this is just a personal opnion build on growing up in sweden, were we often talk about him, not like historian based opnion (although i a mix i opnions from being a gender studies student and undergrad ethnology student. But I have not read much about gustav iii at uni level is what I am trying to say)

Well I would say this:

First of all he was a tyrannt. He shut down the parliement, and took all the power himself (which was illegal. Like, he really did such a state coup, that would today be called a diktator overtake of the state).

Now the parliement of sweden during the 18th were in many ways corrupt, but it was still allowed a proto-demcracy rule, were elected represantives from the 4 stånden cooperated to rule sweden (nobility, priests, borgious, and peasants were the 4 stånden).

Because the parliement actually DID include peasants in sweden, and peasants of a certain status could vote in their represantives into the parliement, shutting it down is a massive step-back for the political influence majority of swedens population, who were peasants.

Gustav III talked about giving “the people the power” but with doing that, he actually takes away power from the people, from my non-historian understanding.

Anyway! I just can’t agree with shutting down the swedish parliement, which is the very parliement we still have in sweden (even if it ofcourse gone through 200 years of reform by now. The parliement of then was not identical etc etc. But it just… feels wrong haha)

Also! Gustav III had alot of ideas for sweden as a nation. But several of those ideas were totally dumb. Sweden was super much in debt when he ruled. But still he insisted on starting wars forexample.

In particular he started a war with russia that went VERY badly, and he is in the historical narrative of sweden, often blamed for sweden losing finland to russia (which happened after his death,so I am not sure how correct that is as a blame game, but he is often blamed for this in sweden. Although I think his son is the one that actually lost finland to russia. I don’t remember).

He ALSO wanted to be treated more like a living God, like the kings of France. Which we often ridicouly him for, both today in sweden and historically.

(Sweden royalty were you know, treated like very powerful people, not like worshipped. He wanted the court to compete to dress him in the morning etc. The population of sweden just laughed and laughed about this silly ideas. Competing about wiping the bottom of the king? Ridicolous!)

Gustav III also wanted sweden in general to became a great power of europe, which in 18th century europe is just… the worst idea. You know importing colonial methods etc etc (which he was not the first swedish monarch to do, but just think about what importing ideas from the other european nations means in the 18th century actually entails).

He also, as many swedens monarchs have, desperatly tried to create a regional swedish fine culture “market”. Like supporting the arts, and trying to make it possible for sweden to compete in the arts with other countries of the world. Thid helped sweden to be able to build up educations of art and academia, not always under his life time, and not all thanks to him. But it helped with injecting some life into the academia.

On the other hand lots of swedens academia has also been BAD, so thats not all positive *pointed look at the eugenics and race biology of which swedens academia was a breeding ground for, ever sense the 18th century*

But well. Gustav III tried to do something with sweden. Something different than what it was, which most of swedens population considered to be total shite.

He did forexample greatly help end the beastility panic i have spoken so much about. He declared that he refused signing papers for death punishment beastility. And lo, and behold, the problem of executing large parts if the healthy male population because of beastility charges, disappear if you do not execute them!

He also refuse to execute people for homosexuality, which I find a very good thing of him.

Now about gustav iii and homosexuality. Gustav iii is often described as some kind of mindless “sissy” tyrannt, because of homophobia. These describtions often, from what I learned in gender studies, actually steam from homophobic slander campaings against him during his life time, and also quickly after his death.

These views, where homosexuality, and just a general non-conformity to our gender norms, is potrayed as “evil” i am HEAVILY against.

Like make fun for Gustav III for all the awful things, and dumb decisions he did in life (like being a tyrannt, claiming that being a dictator was how to be “enlighted monarch”, starting point less wars in a country already in massive debt because of war etc) but I disapprove of making fun of him for his sexuality and gender expressions.

ALSO

With that being said, I also disapprove of all these cishet swedes who will go “he was not gay, that was just slander. He was totalt straight, soooo straight. And he was totally a paragorn of masculinity. And that was totally how all irl in the 18th century considered him”. Like…. He was gay. Pleaaaase. (And i know the difficulty with calling historical people gay. But ALSO. He was gay). And more important, the urgency among historian indicates a homophobic viewpoint among all the modern historians rushing to do so (and this i learned in some feminist articles somewhere haha).

Same with his gender expression. Its says more about the historian rushing to declare his gender expression the paragorn of 18th century manliness, and their modern anxiety about our gender binary, than it tells anything about how his gender expressions was percieved during his life time (I know I just lighty thouched this topics. There is lots intersting things to say about 18th century masculinity among swedish nobility, but I digress)

Anyway. He was gay. He also disliked his wife personally. And she disliked him. And he appeared to have a legit medical issuie with his penis, that prevented him from ejeculating enough sperm during intercourse with the queen. THAT, the inability to create a heir, is therefore not only a case of him being “too gay” (which is often how the homophobic take on him describe him. Like he brought “the end” of swedish rule over finland, by being too gay to create a proper heir….. yes its sound ridicolous, but this is often how gustav iii have been spoken about).

Tldr. I find him intersting. And enjoy joking about him. Gustav iii as a politican though i HEAVILY disaprove of, and I am glad the parliement killed him and reinstated the rule of the parliement.

I just can’t approve of his political actions, but as a historical phenomena he is intersting

(Also WHEN are we getting a proper show about him, which is not tainted by homophobia? LIKE. So sick about swedish historical docs, were all they talk about is about how he had problems to have sex with his wife, and spend all time speculating of thay is what brought the fall of some kind off imagned great epoch. Or something)

PS. All said here is from memory, i did not look anything up. Feel free to correct me if I got something totally wrong. I am no expert in monarchs of sweden and their history. I read ethnology for two terms, and they are not very interested in the history of 1 particular monarch. Much more entire social classes and stuff. And kinda same with the history focus when we have history at gender studies)

Apperntly i had much more opnions about gustav iii than i thought when I first started to type this answer. Ah well haha.

[imaginethatawriter]

Hi could I get a headcanon for all the batboys falling for the same mutant? And maybe she is an avenger? (If you don't do crossovers just ignore the last part!) Tysm if you do thid!!!

I’m sorry if they’re a little odd but I haven’t watched/read anything with the batboys in a while. I will do my darndest. 

It really doesn’t take very long for them all to develop a crush on you. I mean you’re pretty freaking amazing. You kick butt, you’re super smart and you’re nice!! I mean how much more perfect can you get. 

And it’s super obvious that they all like you. They are no subtle at all especially when they start competing with each other. 

Of course they all have their different ways of impressing you. 

Dick is very smooth and spends a lot of time complimenting you. 

He’s probably the one that you fight alongside the most often so subsequently he get’s a lot of time to compliment you’re fighting style. 

He tries to play the “hero” but you really do not need a hero and sometimes you’re the one who has to save him. 

But he’s not ungrateful, he’ll thank you over and over again for helping him out. 

He tries to impress you with his gymnast abilities and when the battle isn’t extremely serious he definitely shows off. 

It doesn’t go unnoticed. 

He’s also probably the person who remembers important stuff about your life. Like they’ll all remember your birthday, but Dick will remember the day your powers showed up, the day you started doing super hero work. Stuff like that. 

This boy is extra we all know it. 

Jason is I guess more direct about his flirting. 

Compliments, winks, some innuendos the whole shabang. 

He makes dumb jokes about his other brothers. It’s a double edged sword. It makes you laugh and also annoys them so it’s the perfect plan. 

He pops in and out of your life pretty randomly. When he’s not spending the night taking out bad guys he hovers around you. Of course this also relies on the fact that the other brothers haven’t also been hovering around you. 

Jason has ways of getting the other brothers away from you. It’s a hassle, but he’ll do it!

He does really small favors for you that add up over time. 

You mention one night that you’re always hungry during the night shift so he brings you snacks. 

Or you mention that it’s colder than you thought outside and he lends you your jacket. 

Tim is the most visibly awkward out of everyone. 

He’s also the most exhausted one out of them all so it makes sense.

He tries to impress you with his computer skills. Any time he pulls off a particularly difficult piece of code or finds some impossible to find information he calls you over and shows you. 

You don’t understand like half the words he uses, but you still listen as best as you can. 

Just overall his mode of impressing you is by using his intelligence. 

He also is obsessed with your health even though he is the biggest hypocrite. 

He asks you if you’ve slept enough if you’ve eaten in the past few hours. Just everything that he could be worried about he asks you about. 

And normally when he nags you about it you nag him right back because he is the most unhealthy human being you’ve ever known. 

He’s a sweet boy who shares his junk food with you but doesn’t let his brothers go anywhere near his food. 

Damian isn’t necessarily awkward but he also doesn’t know what to do. 

So he kinda of observes his brothers and tries to mimic them, but it only ends up being awkward and nothing like him. 

So eventually he gives up and just tries to be himself. 

He has access to Bruce’s money so I mean why not use it??

He buys you stuff and it’s overwhelming at first. 

But the gifts are always very sincere and meaningful despite the majority of them being very expensive. 

Damian is the other brother who memorizes a lot of small things about you and that’s what comes out in his gifts. 

He remembers your birthstone and your favorite color. 

He knows what your favorite animal is and a bunch of things that are on your bucket list. 

It’s a really nice feeling when you bring something up and he mentions something the two of you talked about weeks ago. 

All of the batboys are very sweet and none of them really directly compete with each other. At least they won’t physically fight, but they do try to undermine each other.

They give each other silent glares whenever one of them clearly has more of your attention. 

It’s pretty amusing especially for you because it’s soo obvious what is going on. 

[queen-of-the-crows]

OC Fact Meme

Another OC meme! tagged by @a-shakespearean-in-paris you should all follow her, shes awesome. I’m gonna fill this one out for Thea Hawke seeing as she romances my favorite character

Also, I need to finialize some stuff for her since that’s going to be my next little fic

GENERAL

Name: Thea Amaya Hawke

Alias(es): Lady Amell, Lady Hawke, Champion of Kirkwall, Hawke, Thea (Fenris is the only one of their company who calls her by her first name but only after their first night together), Love (Fenris calls her love when they’re alone after getting back together), Jynx (Varric’s other nickname as bad things seem to always follow her)

Gender: female

Age: 21 at the destruction of Lothering, 28 at the end of Dragon Age 2

Date of birth: Dragon 9:10, winter

Place of birth: Denerim, Fereldan. This is where her parents stayed until she was born and they didnt have to worry about her mother traveling Spoken languages: Common tongue, some Qunlat (taught by Fenris while she taught him to read) Sexual orientation: She considers herself to be straight although she spent some time with other girls while she was a teenager in Lothering; its men that she’s attracted to Occupation: Champion of Kirkwall, former tavern girl while in Lothering, Vicountess of Kirkwall although she didn’t hold the post long, former smuggler

APPEARANCE

Eye color: bright deep blue Hair colour: pure white. her parents always said it was the magic in their blood and the Fereldan winter that made her hair white Height: 5′6 Scars: The largest is one that spans from her left shoulder blade and then goes down her back on a diagonal, ending at her right hip, received from a Qunari blade during their siege; Anders healed it enough for her to fight the Arishok but even his magic had its limits. She has another on her left forearm from when she was teenager received in a fight depending Bethany from a bully which she won of course. The thid is a stab wound in her right thigh given to her by the carta when she was smuggling. Burns: N/A Overweight: No Underweight: No, she isn’t under weight she is thin and toned for her size. Being a rogue, she relies on speed and not the muscle for brute strength.

FAVOURITE

Colour:

blues and dark red

Hair colour

she always thought she prefered darker colors, like black or deep brown until she met Fenris and couldn’t imagine it any other way

Eye colour:

Any color that would captivate her and mesmerize her, draw her in making Fenris’s eyes the most beautiful she had ever seen

Music genre:

She doesnt spend much time listening to music, she reads or plays Diamondback or Wicked Grace or draws. if she was a music person she would probably listen to things like Evanescence.

Movie genre:

Mysterys as she loves puzzles to solve and comedies cause sometimes she would need something lighter in her life

Tv show:

She would probably watch shows like Doctor Who, full of adventure in strange places and Sherlock cause of mysteries

Food:

She’ll eat whatever but her favorite thing is any type of pasta and she has a wicked sweet tooth for cake

Drink: Rum, specifically spiced rum

Book: Anything and everything. she did read all of Varric’s Hard in Hightown. 

HAVE THEY

Passed university: definitely not, with apostates in her family she didn’t have formal schooling Had sex: Yes of course Had sex in public: if by public we mean not in someone’s home then yes. but no one was ever around, they were always alone Gotten pregnant: no and she doesnt want children Kissed a boy: Yes Kissed a girl: Yes Gotten tattoos: No Gotten piercings: no Had a broken heart: Somewhat, their was a boy in Lothering when she was 16 Been in love: With Fenris Stayed up for more than 24 hours: definitely, more than once

ARE THEY

A virgin: No A cuddler: oh most definitely A kisser: there are few things that she would rather do more than kiss Fenris; correction there are none

Scared easily: by things no, by the thought of her own death no, by something happening to Fenris most definitely, nothing scares her more 

Jealous easily: Fenris gives her no reason to be jealous as he only has eyes for her so she has never really had her jealousy tested to know Trustworthy: Yes Dominant: she does both, depending on her mood and Fen’s mood Submissive: see above, their relationship is a healthy mix of both In love: Most definitely Single: Nope and never will be again

RANDOM QUESTIONS

Have they harmed themselves: No, not on purpose. There were training incidents when she was younger and learning her weapon Thought of suicide: somewhat but never in a she would do it type of way; she would be lying if she said the thought never crossed her mind after losing Carver, Bethany, and her mother but it was more in passing and then not again Attempted suicide: No Wanted to kill someone: Oh yes, the monster who killed her mother and Danarius and she took joy in both their deaths. Except in circumstances like that, she doesn’t relish killing people Drove a car: She’s a fairly competent horseback rider, in modern times she would probably drive a classic muscle car Have/had a job: she was a tavern wench in Lothering and was briefly Vicountess of Kirkwall, also was a smuggler  Have any fears: Fenris dying or being taken from her, her life meaning nothing, failing the ones closest to her

FAMILY

sibling(s):

Carver Hawke, younger brother by 3 years. Killed by an Ogre while escaping Lothering. He always had a rough relationship with Thea and they never got the chance to repair it before he died.

Bethany Hawke, younger sister by 3 years. Died in the Deep Roads during Bartrand’s expedition, taken by the darkspawn taint. She was always very close to Thea and her death devastated Thea. She wanted go get something special to remember her by but hadnt found the perfect thing. Bethany was sunshine in her life

parents:

Malcolm Hawke, from Ferelden, an apostate who escaped the circle. Died in Lothering, taught Thea how to use a quarterstaff as it was close to wielding an actual staff and the only weapon he knew how to use

Leandra Amell Hawke, from Kirkwall, thought she was left out by her parents when she chose Malcolm but they loved her all the same. She didnt always agree with Thea’s choices and they did but heads over some things including Fenris initially and the fact that Thea didn’t want to live the life her mother wished of her which was that of a noble. she came around though

children:

none, she and Fenris decided that wasn’t something that they wanted for their life

pets:

As a child she had a fat grey kitten she named Charcoal who followed her everywhere, she had the cat from kitten all the way until the day it died when it was about 15 years old.

a Mabari that she ironically named Barkspawn who found her while waiting for the ship to Kirkwall and immediately took a liking to her and came along for the journey

Wow this took a while, but it was fun! Tagging @annorarutherford @enchantment1385 @sassylavellen

[mycomori]

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[whoviandoodler]

You're a troll so never mind. No matter what I say and how much I argue and how much proof I put forward you're going to stick to your fucked up narrative and the prejudiced system and never let go of your privilege because you're a coward and you very well know it is easier to dump your shit on women than admit that the world was shaped for men like you to have easy lives on the expense of women and minorities.

I will just repeat that yes, you are toxic if you expect your 'partner' (putting this here bcs in hetero relationships there is rarely ever partnership exhibited from the male part of it) to be your sole support system when you are struggling with any mental disorder at all. They can support you by listening and forwarding you to professional help aka a therapist.

You obviously hate women, which you will try to use as 'that feminazi said I hate women pfft that bitch is just whining and complaining'. I am telling you as it is. You read through what I had written without taking the time to understand what I had said and it shows. You are an unempathetic being who views everyone as a vessel for men to have their best lives without taking into account how that affects them and what their position in society was to begin with, position given by men to uphold men. And now honey, its isn't biology, it's you lot being so used to your rules of 'masculinity' and your power that you don't even care to change it. Boys aren't born hateful and emotionally close off, they are taught to be like that by society which ding ding ding is still widely controlled by men and shaped to their desires.

Oh and as for that 'all of the men who live today weren't even born', whatever do you do in your life? Do you spend a minute every now and again to think through your thoughts and how they might be wrong? Society never stops shaping and it never fully lets go of what was made before because those in power make sure that it stays the way that benefits men aka in thid society those people are men, especially cishet white men.

I told you to break those toxic cycles your ancestors created and that you uphold in so many shapes and forms and do better. I told you to learn and teach others about how to find help in a way that is harmless to people they are supposed to be in a mutually loving and equal relationship with. I told you that you can change something for the better so others don't have to suffer at your hands and the hands of toxic men around you, but you don't care do you? Boohoo I am mentally ill and I was taught women are available and free and I can just use them because they are supposed to do free emotional labour for me. Do better. Seek help.

Instead of giving a thought to it and listening to a word I said, you attempt to gaslight me and ignore the experiences of millions of women who are suffering mentally, emotionally and physically at the hands of their male partners because you are afraid to let go of that power you were given just because you were born male for even a second and listen to women and minorities.

And also that comment about how you hope I am a lesbian and never get married? Not at all insulting as you think. Marriage to men as a woman in this society is hell and chains, so no not doing that. And would I rather date women who approach relationships as whole beings and don't expect you to do emotional labour for them and actually listen and can talk to you freely and give as much as they take bcs that's how relationships are supposed to work than man children who are too cowardly and selfish to think from anyone's view but their own and never give as much as they take from you? You bet I do.

Now get your sorry ass off my post and go be and do better, learn and grow, or I am going to block you, not because you are speaking some factual truth that my poor mind can't wrap around, but because you are a sexist, mysoginist, homophobic and transphobic, toxic piece of nothing and you are wasting my time and energy that I could use to help people who want to listen and change.

Girls/women are portrayed as giving compliments to each other when together and chatting on about anything and everything while also listening and it's so ridiculed by society, but like... That's one of the rare cases they can speak of their emotions and troubles freely?

In academic circles they have to pave their way through hell and are still disrespected and expected to never make mistakes and watch what they say on every step lest it be used against them.

In family life (referring to straight marriages) they are expected to listen to their husbands and be their maid, sex worker, therapist, nanny etc and if they ever try to share their struggles they are just flicked off as 'emotional women' and 'my wife just talks and talks and complains'.

In work they have to take the brunt of unequal pay and often sexual harrasment against them and still be quiet to keep their jobs and escape society's judgement.

So is it really surprising that they chat with female friends about what they can't with men because they'd just be ridiculed more and laughed at for talking by the system they help uphold?

Stop rolling your eyes when women speak about their emotions and thoughts. Stop laughing and thinking 'oh, well, women' in that condescending tone like they are lesser beings that 'can't help themselves' but talk. They are whole human beings trying to breathe with nooses around their necks on a stage that you set up because you love the feeling of staged superiority and where you convince those people hanging that being a woman is shameful and something to run away from instead of embrace.

Shortly, fuck you.